Calendar
of Events
June 12, 2004
Secretariat Meeting 10:00am, Cristo Rey (Lincoln) 4221 J St ... enter south
door
June 27, 2004
Grand Ultreya, Van Dorn Park, Lincoln, NE (near 9th & Van Dorn; see
insert)
July 9-10, 2004
School of Leaders (quarterly reunion) – 7:30pm Fri-4pm Sat, Sacred Heart,
Crete
July 29 - Aug 1, 2004 Cursillo National
Encounter, Seattle, WA
August 14, 2004
Secretariat Meeting 10:00am, Location TBA
Sept 17-18, 2004
Practice Weekend, Sacred Heart, Shelby
Sept 23-26, 2004
Men’s Weekend, Sacred Heart, Shelby
Oct 1-3, 2004
Fall Regional Encounter, St. Paul / Minneapolis, MN
Oct 14-17, 2004
Women’s Weekend, Sacred Heart, Shelby
Late Arrival of Newsletter … We opted to send the May/June Newsletter a little late, in order to include the Regional Palanca calendar and information from the Spring Region VI Encounter which was held in Garden City, KS, April 30 – May 2, 2004.
Region VI Spring Encounter ... Was
held in Garden City, KS April 30 - May 2, 2004. Four of the ten talks
from Cala Figuera (given at the 2003 National Encounter) were given in
both English and Spanish.
In 1994 during the 50th Anniversary celebration
of the first Cursillo Weekend, ten topics were presented at Cala Figuera
(in Mallorca). Eduardo Bonnin, the founder of Cursillo, had been
intensely studying various attributes of humanity. These attributes
/ topics reflected the focus of study as the Cursillo Movement was being
formed by the Holy Spirit. From this study came the 10 topics re-presented
at Cala Figuera in 1994 and also at the 2003 National Encounter in Cincinnati:
(1) Person; (2) Freedom; (3) Love; (4) Friendship; (5) Conviction; (6)
Sincerity; (7) Criterion; (8) Life; (9) Normality; and (10) Joy.
Four of these ten topics were given at the Region VI Spring Encounter in
Garden City. These 10 topics are the basis of Cursillo.
News From Secretariat ...
From the Lay Director ...
At the April SOL, the technique (lay) talks used
as their basis chapters in a Cursillo booklet entitled, Our Fourth Day.
It never ceases to amaze me what I hear and what I learn!! Two of
the talks centered on the Three Day Weekend and the other two talks dealt
with those days and weeks following the Weekend … living the Fourth Day
…
The talks did exactly what they were intended to
… they took me to prayer … made me reflect … took me to study…what the
speaker said made me want to know more…so I went to the booklet …how beautiful
the way the He uses others to lead us into a deeper relationship with Him…
And I’d like to share a little of what I found (excerpts in italics are
from the booklet) …
“Therefore, if there is to be any deepening of
our relationship with Him, it must be from our side, because His grace
and love are always available to us. It is our response to Him that
must be continuous and increased if we are to grow in that love and grow
in that grace.” So, if I want a deeper relationship with Him,
the ball is in my court … He’s waiting for my response … As I think
about this, I can visualize Him standing at the door knocking … waiting
for me to open … HIM waiting for ME because His grace and love are always
available … how very much He loves us!! Further, my response must
be continuous and INCREASED if I desire to grow in His love and grow in
His grace … So it’s not really an option to stay where I am …
He desires a deeper relationship, and so do I … So, it’s my move
… And Cursillo’s method of perseverance … living the Fourth Day in
Group Reunion and Ultreya helps keep me returning to the door…(hopefully)
opening it a little wider each time …
Our Fourth Day further states that “Christ
also expects us to be one with each other as we are one with Him.
As Vatican Council II reminded us, we are not saved in isolation; we are
saved in community – the community of Christ’s Body, the Church.”
Hmmm … that kind of sounds like Group Reunion and Ultreya really might
be important … “The Christian community helps us to grow in this
life and love of Christ, and we also need to be contributing members of
that community so as to help others grow likewise …” Yep, Group
Reunion and Ultreya … “These [Group Reunion and Ultreya]
have sprung from the [M]ovement as it recognizes the necessity for
us to help and support each other as we try to live out in our Fourth Day
our commitments to piety [holiness], study [formation] and
action [evangelization].” Oh, oh … the “c” word … commitment
…
The booklet says that “ … We can find excuses
not to make a Reunion. There are lots of ‘good excuses’ not to go,
but the one we miss may be the one when we are most needed by a friend.
So, we should approach making a Reunion and going to Ultreya from the point
of view of an obligation to contribute rather than an opportunity
to take; of giving rather than receiving.” Again, the charge
of the Three Day Weekend … we need to live our lives in a spirit of self-surrender
… to give to one another in a spirit of generosity … That’s a big
part of the Cursillo message and living it out will help us persevere in
the Fourth Day.
As I first reflected on the speaker’s words at SOL,
and again later as I was reading/praying the booklet, I was reminded of
the promises that I made when I lived my Three Day Weekend … “The
promises that we made on the service sheet, which we filled out on the
Weekend, came as a result of our coming to an understanding that in order
to live what is fundamental for being a Christian and to grow in Christ’s
love and knowledge, it was necessary for us to make commitments to grow
in three areas of our life, namely, piety, study, and action, and share
them with others.” I remember making some commitments … I couldn’t
tell you today what they were … But I was ready to jump into a lot
of things following the Weekend … The Three Days had made me reflect
on my life and see areas in which I needed to grow … and I wanted to grow
… and I saw the Cursillo tool of Group Reunion as a means to help me in
that growth.
As I continued to read the booklet (having been
challenged to do so at SOL), I began to see Group Reunion in a whole different
light … okay, so how many years have I been grouping, and just now I’m
seeing the light bulb come on?!? “We determined then what
we wished to promise in order to grow in the Christian life and so we made
certain commitments to fulfill that promise. Perhaps the promise
was to attend Mass and Communion on Saturdays, or perhaps it was to make
a chapel visit after work. Maybe it was to say the Rosary each day,
or to receive spiritual direction and the Sacrament of Reconciliation once
a month. Whatever our promise, the whole idea of making it concrete
by marking it on the service sheet was so that we, in keeping the promise,
would be reminded of it weekly and be able to share with our group what
our piety commitment is and whether or not we kept it. It is not
a question of a multiplicity of piety practices; it is a question of making
a commitment, keeping it, and deepening it. The idea of sharing it
with our group is not that we are accountable to them, but rather that
we measure our own generosity each week.” Whoa! What a
beautiful revelation … talking about our piety each week in Group Reunion
isn’t about going down the list of “spiritual aids [that] helped me in
my spiritual growth this week” and reporting what I did or didn’t do …
How is that growing?!? It’s about having made a specific commitment
the prior week … something that I needed to do to deepen my relationship
with our Lord … and returning the following week to share with my Group
whether or not, and how, I made any progress in deepening my relationship
with my Friend …
The same thing holds true in the other two areas
… study (formation) and action (evangelization) … I make a specific
plan about how I intend to “change my mentality to be more Christian.”
“The purpose of the study commitment is to begin a process whereby
our mentality is reformed to be more in keeping with the Gospel and more
in line with the Church’s thinking; more in line with being Christian …
Anybody who is going to be serious about his/her faith is required to make
an effort to study it, increase one’s knowledge and, thereby, change one’s
attitude … Again, the main point is that we should be in a program
or process whereby our mentality, our attitude, our way of looking at things
is becoming more and more Christian. The study commitment helps us
to achieve this.” I can’t say that I ever consciously thought
of making commitments in each of the three areas each and every week
during
Group Reunion … Yes, there were times when I talked about “my plan
for next week” that I might have mentioned specific plans related
to what might be taken as a commitment in one or maybe two of the areas
(I certainly don’t want to over-commit, you know!!) … but I know that I
didn’t consciously plan my progress in deepening my relationship with Christ
and His Church by making specific commitments for growth in each of the
three areas.
I could go through the same thought process in discussing
action (evangelization), but I’m sure that you get the drift. “The
service sheet then is a concrete way for us to promise to do each week
something that will help us to grow in our living union with Christ through
our piety commitments, through a better understanding of Christ and His
Church through our study commitment, and through planning our apostolic
action.” This revelation … inspired by the words of a speaker
at SOL … which then made me thirst to know more, leading me to the booklet,
Our
Fourth Day … changes my whole way of approaching how I will live Group
Reunion in the Fourth Day. I DO want to grow deeper and deeper in
my relationship with our Lord, and I will only do that when I make specific
commitments about how I plan to do so … And what I share at my Group
Reunion each week will now be about how I am living up to my commitments
…
And as I say/pray these words, I can feel myself
opening the door (with Christ on the other side) a little more …
and with His grace and patience, maybe one day it’ll be wide open …
May we all inch that door open a little more each day!! Thank You,
Jesus, for Your constant love and care … thank You for Your infinite patience
with us … And this day, I also thank You for the gift of the Cursillo
Movement and the beautiful people that You bring into our lives …
Thank You for challenging us to grow … for desiring our growth …
Thank You for SOL and the friendship and fellowship that is a spark to
living the Fourth Day ever more faithfully … And did I tell You how
much I love You?!?!
De Colores! Kathy Springer
From the Spiritual Advisor ...
The Spring Regional Encounter, a week ago in Garden
City, KS, was a nice gathering of cursillistas from across our Region as
well as the country. Four of the ten talks which were presented in
Cala Figuera (in Mallorca) in 1994, were given in both English and Spanish:
Person, Freedom, Love, and Friendship. There was an opportunity for
sharing and discussion after each of the talks. Since these ten topics
are the basis of Cursillo, it was a beautiful opportunity to freely share
ourselves in friendship and love with each other and to deepen our understanding
of the Cursillo Movement.
Over the years that I have been involved in Cursillo,
I have heard it said that “if you are living the Cursillo Method, you should
be able to give any of the rollos on the Three Day Weekend with just a
little notice.” Well, I had the opportunity to experience first hand
the truth of that statement. Right before breakfast on Saturday of
the Regional Encounter, because of scheduling difficulties between the
language presentations, I was asked if I would give the “Person” talk which
was the second talk of the day ... in about 2 hours!
I was given a copy of an English translation of
the Spanish talk which was given in 1994. I went to the Chapel and
read the talk to our Lord, as I asked Him to help me to present what He
wanted me to say. After reading / praying through the talk, I went
to eat a quick breakfast and then to listen to the first talk on Freedom.
After the “Freedom” talk, during the discussion time, I again read / prayed
through my talk and reflected on the person that I am, as well as the persons
that I have met and formed friendships with over the years.
I took the material given to me ... the talk on
Person ... one of the core truths of the Catholic Faith ... and I synthesized
the material with my lived experience ... my life as a cursillista.
In reality, this concept of Person is something I have spent time over
the years thinking about ... I have shared some deep personal discussions
with friends about who we are as persons ... what it means to love and
to be a friend ... and to do that in freedom. Giving this talk on
Person, then, would simply be presenting the truths given to me in the
text of the “Person” talk and adding my lived experience ... my personal
witness.
Really that is what each of us is called to do during
our Fourth Day ... to synthesize the truths of the Catholic Faith with
who we are as persons. To do that, we first need to know ourselves
as persons ... freely created and loved by God ... Only then can we freely
enter into a loving relationship / friendship with God – Father, Son and
Holy Spirit ... and we are then better able to enter into loving friendships
with other human persons. Christ is counting on us to live as the
persons He created us to be ... to give witness to who we are.
Over the years, forming loving friendships with
other cursillistas through Group Reunion and SOL has helped me to grow
in my understanding of myself and to more deeply enter into friendship
and union with the Lord. May the Lord help each of us to deepen our
relationship with Him and with others.
De Colores Father Mark Seiker
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GRAND ULTREYA PLANNED FOR JUNE- BRING YOUR
FAMILY!!
MARK YOUR CALENDARS NOW!!!!
Your Postcursillo section team has planned a Grand Ultreya for June 27th from 11am - 4pm at Van Dorn Park in Lincoln. We want this to be a family-oriented event -- activities are planned for youth of all ages and adults. This year we will also be featuring our first ever Evangelization Walk -- read about it below.
Where?
Van Dorn Park is easily accessible – travel south on 9th Street until
you pass the Van Dorn intersection. Turn right on High Street and
follow the “Shelter” sign. There are restroom facilities (not just
bushes to hide behind!!), running water and grills, and there is an enclosed
shelter we can use for Mass. There is a softball diamond and playground
equipment for kids of all ages. It is a pretty park, perfect for
a family get-together for spiritual and social renewal!
When?
We would like to find a date when every single cursillista could come,
but of course that is not possible. Please do consider this once-a-year
event -- make it a priority date on your family’s calendar if you can …
our intention is to have a Grand Ultreya on the last Sunday in June each
year. This year, on June 27, the day is scheduled to begin at 11:00am,
with Mass at 11:30am. We will have Mass all together, then eat our
picnic potluck meal. Following the meal, there will be introductions;
then the children will have the chance to participate in some games/crafts
while we do our Ultreya Small Group Sharing. The witness will follow.
And then, we will participate in the Evangelization Walk (see below), followed
by relaxation time … meaning sitting and visiting for some, participating
in youth/adult softball for some, or badminton or hiking for others.
The day will conclude around 4:00pm.
Evangelization Walk!
This year we will participate in the Cursillo 3rd National Evangelization
Walk. Those who wish to participate may walk along a course that
will be mapped out (see article in the newsletter for details).
Why?
Our diocese is widespread geographically and it is rare that folks
from the east and west all get together. This is a time for cursillistas
AND THEIR FAMILIES to take part in a Cursillo event. We want to invite
all cursillistas -- religious, single, married -- with children or without
-- please come to celebrate what God has done for us! Last year was
great fun -- don’t miss out!
What?
This will be a potluck picnic. Each family will bring a dish
to share. Some have time and enjoy cooking up something at home,
some pick up KFC -- it doesn’t matter if you bring sandwiches or hot dogs
to grill, the idea is to be together. The Secretariat will bring
paper plates, napkins, glasses and plastic-ware; iced tea/water/orange
drink will be provided. Please also bring softball equipment if you’d
like to play.
How much?
There will be a jar for donations for use of the park shelter for those
able and wanting to throw in a bit. The fee is $60. No park
sticker is needed.
GOD IS GOOD TO US … COME, SHARE THE JOY THAT WE HAVE FOUND IN CHRIST!
MARK YOUR CALENDAR TODAY AND CALL SOMEONE TO CARPOOL WITH YOU!
SEE YOU THERE!
(Insert #2)
Registration Form
School of Leaders
Quarterly Reunion
July 9-10, 2004
13th & Ivy Streets
Sacred Heart - Crete, NE (NOT Shelby)
If you cannot be with us, we request Palanca for the success of
the School.
Name:
Address:
City/State/Zip:
Phone: Email:
Where and when did you make your Cursillo?
Are you able to receive the Sacraments of Confession & Holy Communion? Yes No
To which Organizations do you commit your time?
Are you living the follow-up program of Group Reunion? Yes No
Are you living the follow-up program of Ultreya? Yes No
Do you have any physical/medical/dietary conditions
to be considered?
Please Return this Form WITH PAYMENT
To:
John Springer, 1410 E 15th St, Crete, NE 68333
NO LATER THAN JULY 7, 2004.
You are invited to the Quarterly Reunion of the
School of Leaders. Come participate in the work of Cursillo ... build
community with other cursillistas ... spend time
in prayer and meditation with the Blessed Sacrament. The School is
for all
cursillistas ... men and women, couples, singles,
priests and religious.
FRIDAY, JULY 9TH (Retreat Phase)
7:30pm
--- Registration (NO Meal Friday evening)
7:45pm
--- Mass
8:30pm
--- Meditation, confessions, quiet time
SATURDAY, JULY 10TH (School of Leaders
Agenda)
7:00am
--- Morning prayer and Mass, followed by
breakfast
8:30am
- 4pm Group Reunion, Intro, 1st Session, Lunch, 2nd Session, 3rd Session
4:00pm
--- Clean up and Depart (Supper not provided)
Please bring the following with you to the weekend:
• Pilgrim’s Guide
• If you have the following:
•
Leader’s Manual (please begin praying the Leader’s Prayer on page 57)
•
Lincoln Diocese Pastoral Plan for Cursillo (extra copies will be available)
•
The Fundamental Ideas of the Cursillo Movement
•
His Way
• “Classic” Cursillo accommodations will be
available.
• Advance registrations are requested; it
is fine to attend Saturday only or Friday only
• Suggested donation (if you are able) for
the weekend is $15.00 per person. Please make check payable to “Cursillo
of Lincoln” and mail with the Registration
Form.
• Please keep this half of the flyer for
future reference.
• Please bring a snack to share, if you like.
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